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Thursday, May 26, 2016

Update - Insanity in families. A discussion.

I'm going to update this post (writing today 9/21/16) Because of course she is hovering around with different persona on FB. No real harassment per se and not on my page. My daughters, but it's more of an inside slam by her alter ego (one of three that I've found so far) Not really worth noting here. Oh and by the way, she has since taken down her Lori Wasankari profile after I informed her that her employer might enjoy seeing who she is. (see the convo below) In the meantime, it did remind me that I really needed to share the crap she sent to my husband's page, because hey, it's game on. Tired of it, sick of it and maybe she will just crawl away under a rock somewhere. I won't hold my breath. 

Here is the latest, just a quick and dirty copy and paste. ---- oh, and what's REALLY fun about all of this? It's on the record. And no, I have not one time bad mouthed this woman to anyone and uh...it's all on the record, right here. I'm having fun with this. :-D


  • Conversation started April 11
  • Lori Wasankari
    4/11, 10:42am
    Lori Wasankari

    wiweee you won't be my fwend?
  • Lori Wasankari
    4/11, 11:42am
    Lori Wasankari

    Hi again!! I think it's your day off, so you can catch up w/ all this fantastic FB shit! Right? So, don't worry about Adam, it is in his best interest to stay away from you. His memories of you are entirely of your abuse. The only time you paid attention to him was to beat him. Why would he want to see you? As for Mom, the only reason she probably sees you is due to guilt, believing you are f-d up due to dad's abuse of you. And, recall, you owe me $1500 for your move. It is accruing interest. But, since you are my brother, and the biological father of Adam, I will cut you some slack, and you can pay me $2000 from any future inheritance.
  • April 12
  • Lori Wasankari
    4/12, 9:28am
    Lori Wasankari

    Are you going to see Mom today, like you said... Every Tuesday?
  • April 13
  • Lori Wasankari
    4/13, 3:08pm
    Lori Wasankari

    Hey, Here's a thought!!! tell your wife to get a job!!! Then, maybe then, we all might have some "respect" for her... ya think?
  • May 26

  • May 26You accepted their request.
  • May 27
  • Lori Wasankari
    5/27, 11:13am
    Lori Wasankari

    Hi Joel, I want to thank you for visiting w/ Mom. She enjoys seeing you.
  • Joel Wasankari
    5/27, 11:29am
    Joel Wasankari

    You don't need to thank me for visiting with her. In fact, you don't need to concern yourself with anything I do or don't do. And your usual slicing comments, out of context and without any relevant fact in this case but not limited to anything about me making a commitment to visit her EVERY Tuesday, I think that came as a result of her hearing loss. What I said was that I usually only have Tuesdays off as a regular thing because I often work Sunday night because that is the beginning of my weekend but Mondays as a result I am usually a zombie and recuperating from my overtime. But as far as every Tuesday, this would be an impossibility because it is the only day I have to do work at home and this is the busiest time of year, you know, all the killing of bunnies and such. But the main thing I think is that you should move on with your life and quit throwing barbs (for years) at people who have never done you any harm. I wonder if you blame Chris for me not wanting A THING to do with Adam. She never was part of any of my decisions regarding him (though I don't trust him to be anywhere anything in my life, whether people or belongings)..... So I don't know why you initiated attack on Chris and then later Heather. Believe me that blood alone doesn't mean a thing to me if the blood is inside a mean spirited, judgemental person. You know, the stuff we grew up with that I have shed myself from. You should do the same. Good relationships are impossible in an environment of poisonous vipers.
  • Lori Wasankari
    5/27, 11:43am
    Lori Wasankari

    Joel, I am well aware of your attacks of me to Jill, so no you have not shed yourself from anything to do w/ your biological family, as far as I can tell. But no matter to me. My main concern is mom's welfare. I understand she may have misunderstood you due to her hearing loss, or wishful thinking-- whatever. My point about Adam, that I made years ago, was that I thought you could at least talk to him on the phone once in awhile. But you went so far as to tell everyone he was not even your child. Whatever. I understand you work a lot, and have had to support 3 other adults. Of course this is your choice. You said many years ago that I always thought you could do better than the women you chose to live with, marry etc. I had never thought that until now. I feel like you do a lot & of course this is your choice, for those others in your life. I do wish you the best. .. And, just by the way, Heather is the one that wrote to me this week. I was exhausted for many reasons that day, and should not have even responded. Glad to see she is married to the army guy for the child's sake in getting medical bills paid, etc. I have tried to be friendly to Heather, liking her pictures, etc. She responded and said that she knows her mother does not like me, etc. So, I know Chris bad mouths me without any instigation on my part. Someday, after Mom dies, I will do my best to limit communication (but always with you only) to only what is necessary for business matters if there are any to resolve once mom dies. In the meanwhile, take care.
  • June 8
  • Lori Wasankari
    6/8, 8:36am
    Lori Wasankari

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOEL!!!!
  • June 8
  • Joel Wasankari
    6/8, 5:21pm
    Joel Wasankari

    thanks Lori....
  • Lori Wasankari
    6/8, 5:30pm
    Lori Wasankari

    of course... I hope you have a great celebration :)
  • Lori Wasankari
    6/8, 6:39pm
    Lori Wasankari

    & just so you know.. without a doubt, I do love you. You will always be my big brother.
  • June 12
  • Lori Wasankari
    6/12, 5:19pm
    Lori Wasankari

    How was your birthday celebration?
  • June 14
  • Lori Wasankari
    6/14, 5:27pm
    Lori Wasankari

    Hello!!! no hablo English?
  • July 11
  • Lori Wasankari
    7/11, 5:07pm
    Lori Wasankari

    Hi Joel, Well, just so you know, maybe you want to visit Mom next week so you can see me too!!! :) love you too!!!
  • July 12
  • Lori Wasankari
    7/12, 1:20pm
    Lori Wasankari

    I will be @ Mom's all next week. Tanna will be coming over to visit too! Hope to see you too!!!
  • July 14
  • Lori Wasankari
    7/14, 4:00pm
    Lori Wasankari

    Guess What? Janice Baptista is on FB! I know you remember that beauty !!
  • Lori Wasankari
    7/14, 4:32pm
    Lori Wasankari

  • Lori Wasankari
    7/14, 4:32pm
    Lori Wasankari

    Linda Barnett... looks as good as ever... living in P.A
  • Lori Wasankari
    7/14, 4:40pm
    Lori Wasankari

    Did I mention, LB has a job...
    maybe you should connect w/ LB...
  • Lori Wasankari
    7/14, 5:08pm
    Lori Wasankari

    Joel, Linda would like to connect w/ you :)
    she has always like you
  • Lori Wasankari
    7/14, 5:23pm
    Lori Wasankari

    'liked" you...
  • July 22
  • Lori Wasankari
    7/22, 6:03pm
    Lori Wasankari

    Is the only reason you spend time w/ mom is because she gave you money? Is that what it took?
  • August 3
  • Joel Wasankari
    8/3, 1:00pm
    Joel Wasankari

    is your life so pathetic that you must keep sticking your nose into mine?
  • Lori Wasankari
    8/3, 1:03pm
    Lori Wasankari

    Oh, hi Joel! Nice to hear from you! Hope you are well! I am busy with work, and helping your son. Take care! Lori
  • Lori Wasankari
    8/3, 3:09pm
    Lori Wasankari

    correction: Love You!!! Your sister, Lori & Your son, Adam Arthur Wasankari xxxxxoooo
It's laughable if it weren't so sick. His son is 34, 35. Something like that. An adult. And uh, notice the "check out this other chick and she works" crap. This woman, she just never stops. So I won't either. :-D ------ End of this update, the rest, well, read to your hearts content. Share it if you think it needs to be shared and do not, no matter what ever trust this woman. She is poison.

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Very nice, no? Kind of embarrassing, isn't it? I for one am rather sick of it. So I am indeed going to post it all together and share it. If her name gets searched via google, this will show up. More will be added to this post because not only has she been harassing me and my husband, for years (she will not let it go at all)...she has also been seriously awful to my daughter. So. I have stayed patient. Tried to just let it die down and back. Nope. Stay tuned for more. Because it is now coming. 

This was the start of it, to my husband. Notice that last little barb thrown in. As if I personally have had a damn thing to do with any of the feuding. She dislikes me intensely, the feeling is rather mutual. I however just wanted to stay out of the way and be left alone over this entire thing. Nope. So, game on. Meet, Lori Wasankari Allen.
  • Lori Wasankari
    4/11, 10:42am
    Lori Wasankari

    wiweee you won't be my fwend?
  • Lori Wasankari
    4/11, 11:42am
    Lori Wasankari

    Hi again!! I think it's your day off, so you can catch up w/ all this fantastic FB shit! Right? So, don't worry about Adam, it is in his best interest to stay away from you. His memories of you are entirely of your abuse. The only time you paid attention to him was to beat him. Why would he want to see you? As for Mom, the only reason she probably sees you is due to guilt, believing you are f-d up due to dad's abuse of you. And, recall, you owe me $1500 for your move. It is accruing interest. But, since you are my brother, and the biological father of Adam, I will cut you some slack, and you can pay me $2000 from any future inheritance.
  • April 12
  • Lori Wasankari
    4/12, 9:28am
    Lori Wasankari

    Are you going to see Mom today, like you said... Every Tuesday?
  • April 13
  • Lori Wasankari
    4/13, 3:08pm
    Lori Wasankari

    Hey, Here's a thought!!! tell your wife to get a job!!! Then, maybe then, we all might have some "respect" for her... ya think?

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    Here is the chat she had with my daughter. My daughter did contact her first to find out why she was being so mean...then it was game on. These are screen captures on phone. Oh and by the way, Lori Wasankari Allen is 55 years old...and my daughter is 18.




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     These (below) were sent to me via my art page at facebook...see the weirdness in sometimes being reasonable and then whammo --- It starts out from 2013 and ends with yesterday on 5/25/2016 - And yes, it now says facebook user. She blocked me after our discussion. Worth the entire read.

    Facebook User
    Facebook User
    To Joel: Mom's 78th Birthday party will be in Wenatchee. You are invited. Please RSVP by June 30th.

    Facebook User
    Facebook User
    Happy Thanksgiving to you, Joel & Heather.

    The Art of Christine Wasankari
    Thank you. I hope your thanksgiving was happy as well.

    Facebook User
    Facebook User
    Yes. Life is good.

    Facebook User
    Facebook User
    Dear Joel, I am visiting Mom this week. I spoke w/ Marilyn & Ron, and Burt & Martha Paul today. Please know that they have been advised that you have nothing to do with Mom due to your eccentricities, ie insanity. Yes, you have lots of goats! That you eat! I made sure Marilyn & Martha were fully aware of your concerns about the USA falling apart & your need to eat your own meat, however little sense the economics of feeding goats works out compared to buying human food rather than goat feed. But whatever., They know how to reach me now, NOT you, in case Mom ever needs help, etc. Next time you see Mom's neighbors you can rest assured they know all about you & your lack of parental support to Adam,.,, On that note, take care!!!

    The Art of Christine Wasankari
    Hey Lori...shoot me your number so we can have a little fun hashing it out...you obviously are in rare form today so let's have a go, shall we?
    Oh good, at least you are responding...
    Facebook User
    Facebook User
    Are you having postpartum depression? Please see a psychiatrist. I doubt you can afford phone call to me. Please spend your hard earned money (ha-ha ha) on formula for your illegitimate child since your breasts are probably barren of milk. I hope you can afford fake milk (formula) for you "child". Please pay attention to your motherhood, that is where your narrow attention show be focuse.
    Facebook User
    Facebook User
    focused.
    The Art of Christine Wasankari
    We have record by the way of all the lovely little tidbits you are sending to my daughter....all of it.And to me now... I have plans to share it everywhere...You are most definitely a very, very sick woman. I suspect you are the one who needs some special help darlin' wink emoticon
    Oh and by the way...I can afford more than you think. Afraid to chat, hmmmm?
    Probably just afraid, to chat on the phone...but hey, for someone with your job description and who you work for...I'm sure they will enjoy this little spat. Of that, I'm quite sure.
    Facebook User
    Facebook User
    HI Chris, Nice to hear from you! This appears to be a threat. I am sorry if you feel threatened by me. I have only tried to be of help to you & my brother. I with you & your family the best- always.
    The Art of Christine Wasankari
    No threat implied my dear, glad to see you are a little more...shall we say, less combative in your approach to communication? Just wanted to chat and see if we can somehow work this out. You keep approaching with bombastic rhetoric, just thought I'd clear the air...the offer is still open.
    The Art of Christine Wasankari
    Better yet, as I offered several years ago...let's meet and have a lovely cup of coffee or tea and do it in person. wink emoticon You never took me up on that one. I do have that file if you'd like to see it again...
    Facebook User
    Facebook User
    take care.
    The Art of Christine Wasankari
    You too Lori...you too. But uh, just for the record, I take it that means we are finished, no?

    Facebook User
    Facebook User
    Hi Chris! Love you too! take care of my brother in the best possible way!!!
    The Art of Christine Wasankari
    Sure..I always have, taken care of your brother that is...it's been 18 years now. We have a great relationship. Not at all the flushing down the toilet you mentioned to me daughter. No, it's fabulous and uh, thank you for mentioning it.
    Facebook User
    Facebook User
    I am sooooooooooooooooo Happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!

    The Art of Christine Wasankari
    Why thank you Lori. I appreciate that. LOL
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